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I want to be wild!

A few weeks’ ago, a well-adjusted bisexual guy came into my office. He was handsome, smart, successful and quite happy with his life. So, I [...]

You are the Cake

If you’re single: do you ever feel lonely and wish that someone wonderful would love you? If you’re coupled: do you ever feel lonely and [...]

Look for the Helpers

This is not the column I had planned to write. But, this week I’ve been very inspired by two experiences: The terrific LGBT Exhibit at [...]

How to be Alone

I have lived alone many times, in many places, e.g.; Dayton, Ohio; Louisville, Kentucky; Paris, London, New York City and San Francisco. I have also [...]

An Intimacy Tune-Up

People use the term “intimacy” very loosely, but, what exactly is it? The meaning of intimacy varies from relationship to relationship. To me, it has [...]

How’s Your Sex Life?

Sex is great right? Lots of fun. Easy, no problems. Always available when you want it. Your libido is strong and will do whatever you [...]

Healthy Anger

I often ask clients: “What do you do with your anger?” Some people are surprised by that: they’ve never really thought about it. Let’s think [...]

Panic Attacks, PTSD and Me

When clients ask me, “Why did you become a therapist?”, my usual response is: “If you knew my childhood history, you’d understand.” According to the [...]

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