Facebook

Call 619-955-3311 | Contact Me

Michael Dale Kimmel – www.lifebeyondtherapy | LGBT - Michael Dale Kimmel - www.lifebeyondtherapy
San Diego-based, California-licensed psychotherapist, assisting clients in achieving their goals and becoming the men and women they want to be.
San Diego Therapist, California-licensed psychotherapist,
2819
page,page-id-2819,page-template,page-template-blog-template1,page-template-blog-template1-php,
 

The Joys of Self Love

Posted by Michael Dale Kimmel in lgbt
FacebookTwitterGoogle+

I have clients who tell me that it’s painful for them to walk down University Avenue in Hillcrest and see all those happy couples. “It makes me feel so lonely and unwanted,” they say. When you’re single, and people around you “appear”—and I use that…

The 7 Kinds of Love (Plus One More)

Posted by Michael Dale Kimmel in lgbt
FacebookTwitterGoogle+

Lots of people talk about love, sing about love and write about love, but haven’t you ever wondered: what exactly is “love” anyway? I recently went to a workshop where many different aspects of love were addressed and we, the participants, were encouraged to examine…

Total Twink Fixation

Posted by Michael Dale Kimmel in lgbt
FacebookTwitterGoogle+

Dear Michael: I have this incredible crush on a guy from my gym. He is one of the most gorgeous guys in town. I am 45, but I have this schoolgirl crush.  You know why?  Because he walked by and said “Hi” to me.   I could never…

The Three Year Itch

Posted by Michael Dale Kimmel in lgbt
FacebookTwitterGoogle+

“I’m so bored with him.” “The excitement’s gone”. “She’s so predictable; I know exactly what she’ll do.” Sound familiar?  These statements are typical of how some of my clients describe their long-term relationships.  Those of you who have never had one, pay attention: you may be able…

Your own worst enemy

Posted by Michael Dale Kimmel in lgbt
FacebookTwitterGoogle+

Are you a jealous person? What makes you jealous? Jealousy is a form of self-sabotage. It rarely helps you get what you want. Jealousy usually is a sign that something is “off” in you. Not necessarily in others; but in you. Sure, you may have…

Love, friendship and Soul Mates

Posted by Michael Dale Kimmel in lgbt
FacebookTwitterGoogle+

Have you heard people talk about their “soul mate”? This perfectly-designed person is your ideal match. God sent them just for you. There is no other person on earth who would be such a good match. Do you believe this? Because, if you do, recent…

Sigmund goes to Palm Springs

Posted by Michael Dale Kimmel in lgbt
FacebookTwitterGoogle+

For many of us LGBT San Diegans, winter and spring are the perfect times to go to Palm Springs: the weather is great and it’s just far enough away to feel like we’ve had an adventure. I was thinking recently of what it would be…

12 Steps for the Rest of Us

Posted by Michael Dale Kimmel in Columns, lgbt
FacebookTwitterGoogle+

While I am not a member of a 12 step program, I find the 12 steps are useful for anyone struggling with an addictiion. In reality, most of us have some kind of addictive or compulsive behavior that interferes with our happiness. In his book…

The Trans Community and Me

Posted by Michael Dale Kimmel in lgbt
FacebookTwitterGoogle+

For several years, people have asked me to write a column about the transgender (aka “trans”) community. As a cis male, I deferred. Instead, I asked trans friends to write something, but, no dice. Last week, a trans client said, “Why don’t you write a…