June 2018


Pride 2018: “A moment of great urgency”

Posted by Michael Dale Kimmel in lgbt

Recently, speaking here in Southern California, former President Obama said, "This is a moment of great urgency. You are right to be concerned. The progress we have made is not a given." These are scary times. As a psychotherapist, I keep waiting for the anxiety to...

How to be Alone

Posted by Michael Dale Kimmel in Columns

I have lived alone many times, in many places, e.g.; Dayton, Ohio; Louisville, Kentucky; Paris, London, New York City and San Francisco. I have also lived with many other people (not simultaneously) in places like New Haven, Connecticut; Panorama City, California; Yonkers, New York; Bath;...

An Intimacy Tune-Up

Posted by Michael Dale Kimmel in Columns

People use the term “intimacy” very loosely, but, what exactly is it? The meaning of intimacy varies from relationship to relationship. To me, it has to do with feeling a connection with another person. It requires empathy: the ability to stand in another person’s shoes. Intimacy is...