Columns - Michael Dale Kimmel - Life Beyond Therapy

What To Do When You’re Not Young And Cute Anymore

I often hear - from my mid-life clients - something like this: “The singles world is all about hot guys/girls in their 20’s and 30’s. I feel [...]

photo courtesy of gayguys.com Often, when I counsel newly-married couples, I hear a familiar lament: “I feel like I’ve lost myself since I [...]

still photo from the amazingly good movie "Belle" Dear Michael: I am a closet bisexual. I have been with a terrific guy for [...]

Often clients ask me, “Should I stay with my partner or should I go?” This is obviously not a question I can answer for them, [...]

For quite some time now, I have been recommending local health care professionals to my San Diego clients. I would now like to make those [...]

Have you ever noticed how much competition there is in same sex couples? It’s just beneath the surface, and something I see a lot as a [...]

Dear Michael: I have been with my partner for several years’ now. Our sex life isn’t great, but everything else is good. Last week, I [...]

Photo of Vanessa Redgrave courtesy of nymag.com The same bad thing can happen to two people: one gets really down and depressed for [...]

photo by Landon Nordeman for nymag.com In this confusing time, after Orlando and before San Diego Pride, what do we stand for? As [...]

As the tragedy in Orlando continues to unfold, I find myself asking: How do you grieve for someone you don’t know? How do you [...]

photo by Kevin Tachman for mymag.com Dear Michael: I am a 27-year-old gay man who only recently came out. I was married for a [...]

photo by Kevin Tuchman The other day I was talking with a client, a well-adjusted gay man, who told me, “I don’t think [...]