Columns

Photo of Ariana Grande, courtesy of snapchat Mirror work is something I first tried about 30 years’ ago. I went to a workshop [...]

photo courtesy of nymag.com There are hundreds of books and videos on how to be popular. In this column, I’d like to talk [...]

Photo by Erik Madigan Heck for nymag.com First it was my 19-year-old goddaughter. Then my 30-year-old niece. Now it’s my 45-year-old male client. [...]

photo courtesy of nymag.com Have you ever wondered: How can I become less reactive and impulsive? How can I turn down the noisy [...]

photo of Erykah Badu courtesy of nymag.com What do you do when you are disappointed? How do you handle it? That’s what this [...]

Whenever I meet with a new client, I usually hear some version of: how can I make my life better? How can I make real [...]

photo by youngjun coo for nymag.com I know that dating may seem to be passé, but whether you call it hanging out, “Netflix [...]

I have just finished reading "Delivering Happiness: A Path to Profits, Passion and Purpose" by Tony Hsieh, CEO of Zappos.com, Inc. It is really a [...]

photo by youngjun coo for nymag.com Love is more easily experienced than defined. Google said that the question: “What is love?” is one [...]

I rarely mention movies on this website, but, recently, I saw two very powerful movies that I heartily recommend:  "Youth" is an amazing, somewhat surreal [...]

What happens when you meet someone through a sexual experience and then discover that there might be more...much more. How do you turn sex into [...]